Uyakonwabela ukuya kuloba? Uphoswa lixesha lolonwabo ukuba awukhange uzame! Ukuloba yeyona ndlela ilungileyo yokuchitha ixesha kwaye uphumle ngokulula kwabaninzi, kodwa inokuba njalo ngenxa yokuba awunalo ulwazi, umonde ofunekayo!
Ngalo mdlalo wokuloba, umntwana wakho uya kufunda intshayelelo ekhuselekileyo neyonwabisayo kwihlabathi liphela lokuloba. Yakhelwe ukuba yonwabise kodwa yonwaba kwaye ibandakanya. I-chunky, iziqwenga ezinemibala kunye neethoyi ezithandekayo ezimile okwentlanzi ziya kuyenza ibe ngamava amnandi kubantwana abadlala kunye nokufunda ngaxeshanye.
Kukho izakhono ezisisiseko zokuloba ezifunekayo; ukulungelelaniswa kwamehlo nezandla, ukusetyenziswa kwezandla zakho ngobuchule. Ezi zezinye zezakhono ezisisiseko ukwenza nantoni na, ukusuka ekutyeni ukuya ekubhaleni, nasekudlaleni eminye imidlalo. Kumdlalo wokuloba, umntwana wakho uya kusebenzisa izandla zakhe ukubamba intonga yokuloba kwaye abambe iintlanzi ezinemibala.
Umonde mhlawumbi ubaluleke kakhulu kuzo zonke, ukuloba ngezakhono kuya kukufundisa ngexesha. Ngaphandle kokuba ucinga ntoni, umntwana wakho akayi kubamba intlanzi ngexesha lokuqala. Oko kulinda uze uzame kwakhona luhlobo lwento eyenza ukuloba kube mnandi!
Umdlalo wokuloba owonwabisayo nofundisayo wabantwana! Baya kunandipha ulonwabo “lokubambisa” intlanzi encinane ngepali yabo yokuloba baze badlale kwakhona “kumanzi entelekelelo! Lo uphinde wabonisa ukuba uloyiso olukhawulezayo nabantwana, njengoko iyindlela elula neyonwabisayo abanokuyenza ngokuphindaphindiweyo ngaphandle kokukruquka.
Oku kunokunceda, ngokunjalo, ukukhuthaza intelekelelo yomntwana wakho kunye nokuyila njengoko bedlala nomdlalo wokuloba. Basenokuba ngumlobi obambe iintlanzi ezithile elwandle okanye isazinzulu esifunda ngezilwanyana zaselwandle. Olu hlobo lokudlala olunentelekelelo lukhokelela kubantwana abanobuchule bokuyila kunye nokusombulula iingxaki xa bekhula.
Ngomdlalo wokuloba, uya kubona umntwana wakho ekhula kwaye efunda izakhono ezitsha ngelixa edlala. Ungaziva ukhululekile ukubavuyisa njengoko begxalathelana kwintlanzi kwaye ninobabini ninokubhiyozela uloyiso lwenu kunye. Kuwe nomntwana wakho, oku kunokuba ngamava adibeneyo aya kuwakhumbula ubomi bakhe bonke.