INyathelo 1-Iethoyi zoMthi ezoyikekayo zeBhlokhi kaloliwe woMthi! Yinto yokudlala ethile umntwana omncinci anokuthi enze iitrekhi kwaye aqeqeshe ilizwe azenzele lona. Le seti ivumela umntwana wakho ukuba enze ngathi wakha nayiphi na ikhosi kaloliwe ayinqwenelayo! Bayakwazi ukwenza iingoma ezongeziweyo ezivuthuzayo kunye nokujika, okanye nokuba bakhe iindawo zokuwela ngaphezulu! Iibhloko zokwakha ezinesibindi nezinemibala ziyonwabisa-zimnandi, azijongi nje kakuhle kodwa zikwalula kakhulu ukupakisha kunye. Oku kunceda umntwana wakho ukuba akhulise izakhono zakhe zemoto kwaye bayonwaba kakhulu ngokwenza oko.
Iseti encinci yebhloko yeplanga yeplanga ayiyonto yokudlala kuphela, kodwa ikwalithuba elihle lokuba abantwana bafumane iinyani ezininzi ezintsha. Okukhona beqhelisela, kokukhona baya kuqonda kakuhle ukuba ziphi na izinto nendlela ezinxibelelana ngayo.” Oku kuya kubanika amava abalulekileyo okusombulula iingxaki zexesha lokwenyani. Iibhloko zinemibala eyahlukeneyo kunye neemilo, ezinokuba luncedo ekufundeni ngeepateni. Ukufunda ukuchonga imibala eyahlukeneyo kunye neemilo ngokwenza umdlalo yeyona ndlela ibalaseleyo yokuba bafunde ngendlela ezele lulonwabo.
Abantwana kufuneka babe nezinto ezintsha kakhulu, Kwaye le seti yebhloko yeplanga kaloliwe ibavumela ukuba benze njalo! Ukuba umntwana wam uyafuna, unokuseta iingoma zakhe zikaloliwe ezinemibala ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo zesigidi kwaye enze zonke iintlobo zamabali endleleni. Basenokwenza imiboniso emitsha koololiwe ngemodeli yabo elandelayo. Ngaphandle kokuvumela iingcinga zabo ukuba zibaleke, lo msebenzi wakha ukuzithemba kwinto yokuba bayila. Baya kuqhayisa ngendalo yabo!
Abantwana bebeyonwabele ibhloko yololiwe eyenziwe ngamaplanga kwizizukulwana ngezizukulwana—yaye ngesizathu esivakalayo! Yinto yokudlala yakudala abantwana abangakwaziyo ukonela kuyo. Ngoku, lithuba lomntwana wakho lokufumana ulonwabo olungapheliyo lokudlala kunye! Le toy yakudala ifanelekile kubantwana bayo yonke iminyaka, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo iya kubethwa ngabo bonke abantakwabo kunye nabahlobo. Khawucinge nje ngendlela ekuya kuba mnandi ngayo ngomntwana wakho ukudlala ngale nto yokudlala ngoku aze ayidlulisele kubantwana bakhe! Hayi nje ukuzonwabisa, kodwa ngobuninzi beenzuzo zokufunda ezibalulekileyo, nazo!
Umntwana wakho uya konwaba ekwakheni iindlela ezahlukeneyo zikaloliwe ngaphandle kwebhloko yeplanga! Ngumsebenzi okhohlisayo ngamanye amaxesha, kodwa yiloo nto eyenza kube mnandi kakhulu! Inkqubo yokupakisha kunye nokudibanisa iiseti zebhloko inokunceda umntwana wakho abe ngcono ekusebenziseni izandla zakhe. Yinto oogqirha abayibiza ngokuba “yizakhono zobuchule bokusebenza kakuhle”, kwaye ibalulekile kwizinto ezininzi aza kuzenza umntwana wakho ebomini bakhe. Ivumela ukudlala kube lithuba elihle kubo lokukhulisa iingqondo zabo kunye nemizimba yabo ngaxeshanye! Ke ngoko, iiToyi zoMthi zeplanga iseti yebhloko yebhloko yeyona ilungileyo iseti yabantwana.